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Parenting on the Same Page

A SELF-PACED PARENTING PROGRAM FOR COUPLES RAISING KIDS TOGETHEr

A self-paced parenting program for couples who want aligned boundaries, fewer conflicts, and more ease in everyday family life.

Go from disconnect to parenting as a united team even when you disagree.

Just $97 — Lifetime Access

Real Change Starts When You Parent Together

You care deeply about your kids, but it can feel like you and your partner are never quite on the same page when it comes to parenting.

You’re navigating tantrums, transitions, and everyday parenting decisions, often with two different parenting styles. One of you wants firmer boundaries. The other wants to keep the peace. And in the moment, it’s easy to feel frustrated, judged, or unsure how to move forward together.

You’ve tried talking about it. You’ve read the parenting books. You’ve had the arguments and the quiet resentments. Still, the same challenges keep showing up, and you’re left wondering how to create a more aligned parenting approach as a couple.

Parenting on the Same Page is a self-paced parenting program for couples raising young children. It’s designed to help parents align their parenting values, communicate more clearly, and work as a team, even when your approaches look different.

Inside the program, you’ll learn practical, science-based parenting strategies to support behavior, reduce conflict, and create shared expectations at home, without needing to parent exactly the same way.

Because the program is self-paced, you can move through the content in your own time, return to the tools as new challenges arise, and continue building a strong parenting partnership as your family grows.

Whether you’re feeling stuck in constant disagreements or simply want to strengthen your connection as parents, this program gives you clear guidance and practical tools to build a parenting partnership rooted in trust, teamwork, and confidence.

What if you could…

• Respond as a team during tough parenting moments instead of reacting in frustration or going silent

• Back each other up with clear boundaries and shared strategies you both believe in

• Repair after hard moments in a way that builds connection and trust

• Feel more united—even when your approaches are different

• Communicate openly and calmly, even under pressure

• Handle public meltdowns or big emotions without feeling embarrassed or disconnected

• Build a home that feels more like a partnership and less like a power struggle

This self-paced program gives you the tools to shift out of conflict and into collaboration—with the support to stay steady when parenting feels hard.

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Who is this for

This program is for you if:

• You and your partner often disagree on how to handle things with your child

• You want to feel more united, but conversations keep ending in frustration or shutdown

• One of you tends to be stricter, the other more relaxed—and it’s causing tension

• You’re tired of feeling like you’re parenting solo even though you're doing it together

• You want to stop second-guessing each other and start building trust and teamwork

• You're ready for practical tools to feel more connected, confident, and in sync

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What we’ll cover

Week One

PARENTING IDENTITY
+ SHARED VISION

Explore how your upbringings shaped the way you parent today. Get clear on your personal values and begin crafting a shared family vision.

Week Two

ROLES, EXPECTATIONS + MENTAL LOAD

Break down who does what at home and why it matters. Get honest about the invisible load and how to rebalance the weight of parenting.

Week Three

Boundaries + Discipline

Get on the same page with a discipline approach you both support. Align on consistent vs. flexible boundaries and learn how to back each other up in the moment.

Week Four

EMOTIONAL REGULATION + MODELING

Understand your own triggers and stress patterns. Learn simple co-regulation tools and model emotional intelligence for your kids.

Week Five

CONFLICT REPAIR + COMMUNICATION

Practice tools to navigate conflict and miscommunication. Learn how to repair after rupture and reconnect without blame or shutdown.

Week Six

ROUTINES + RHYTHMS FOR FAMILY FLOW

Establish practical routines and “parent syncs” that help you stay aligned. Create space for connection, clarity, and calm—together.

  • Working with Emily helped me break generational patterns I didn’t even realize I was carrying into my parenting.

    Growing up, discipline was always about control and punishment, and I found myself repeating those same behaviors with my own kids. Through Emily’s coaching, I learned how to parent with empathy, set boundaries with love, and model emotional regulation—something I never experienced as a child. The shifts in my relationship with my children have been profound, and I now feel confident that I’m raising them in a healthier, more compassionate environment. Emily’s support has truly changed the legacy I’ll pass on to my children.

    - LAURA

  • I knew her coaching was the answer to our issues

    After the first session with Emily, I knew that her coaching was the answer to our issues. Not only is Emily educated in parenting techniques, she is so good at getting to the bottom of an issue and dicing out how to move forward as a team. My husband and I were having so many miscommunications and mismatches in our parenting style before we enrolled in Emily’s course. After just two sessions, we have implemented so many tools and techniques with our daughter that have improved all of our lives immensely. The online portion is easy to follow, and the reading is interesting and relatable. The best part about the course for us is the workbook portion. They really make us think about our own backgrounds and how we show up, and our answers bring a much greater understanding between us. We are so glad we got off the pot and made the commitment to work with Emily to make our family life less stressful. Thank you Emily!

    - SAM

  • Working with Emily has been a game-changer for our family!

    My partner and I were struggling with our toddler's tantrums, and we felt overwhelmed with the arrival of our second baby. Emily's guidance was not only practical but also incredibly supportive. She provided us with tools and techniques that brought calm into our home. The 8-week course helped us communicate better, set boundaries with compassion, and feel confident as parents. We’ve noticed a remarkable difference in how we approach challenges, and our kids are happier for it! I highly recommend her to any parent seeking balance and harmony.

    - SARAH

  • This is the most exceptional course I’ve ever taken- changed my life! And my kids’ lives too!!!

    - GILLIAN

Hi, I’m Emily!

I’m a certified parent coach, early childhood educator, and mom to one.

I work with parents of young children who are in the thick of it. Feeling overwhelmed. Unsure how to respond. Wanting more calm and connection at home.

This isn’t about perfect routines or parenting theories. It’s about understanding what’s underneath the behavior, learning how to stay grounded in the hard moments, and breaking old patterns that leave you feeling like you’ve failed.

I’ve been on both sides. First as a family support worker. Then as a parent myself. The tools I learned changed how I show up, not just with children but with myself. They helped me see that parenting well is not about getting it right all the time. It’s about connection, repair, and having the support to do things differently.

This is a space for real tools, honest support, and guidance that actually helps.

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Your Investment

PARENTING ON THE SAME Page

Full access to the self-paced Parenting on the Same Page program
Short, practical video lessons you can move through together, in your own time.

Downloadable companion workbook
Designed to help you reflect, apply what you’re learning, and build shared language and clarity as a parenting team.

Practical, science-based tools
Gentle guidance and strategies to support behavior, reduce conflict, and parent with more calm, confidence, and consistency.

Lifetime access
Return to the content whenever new challenges arise or as your family grows and changes.

$97

Do you need more personalized support?

I also offer this program in a 1:1 version, which is the exact same content, workbooks and videos — but in the comfort of your own home, at your own time.

FAQs

  • The self-paced Parenting on the Same Page program gives you structured guidance, practical tools, and shared language you and your partner can work through together, on your own schedule. It’s designed to help you align your approach, reduce conflict, and feel more confident as a parenting team without live sessions or ongoing support.

    1:1 support offers personalised guidance and real-time feedback for families who need deeper, more tailored support around specific challenges. It includes direct coaching and is a higher-touch option.

    Many families start with the self-paced program and find it gives them exactly what they need. For others, it can be a helpful foundation before exploring 1:1 support.

  • For many couples, the self-paced program is more than enough.

    If you’re looking to:

    • get on the same page

    • improve communication around parenting

    • create shared boundaries and expectations

    • feel more united and confident as parents

    …the self-paced program is a great place to start.

    If you’re navigating more complex situations or feel stuck despite trying multiple approaches, 1:1 support may be helpful. You don’t need to decide that upfront. You can begin with the self-paced program and see how it supports you before considering anything more.

  • The self-paced program includes:

    • Clear, guided video lessons you can work through together

    • A downloadable workbook with prompts and tools to support reflection and real-life application

    • Practical, science-based strategies you can return to whenever challenges arise

    While there is no live coaching or personalised support included, the program is designed to feel steady, supportive, and easy to return to as your family grows and changes.

  • This program is designed to be worked through together, but it also meets you where you are. Many couples start at different levels of readiness. The structure, language, and tools help create shared understanding without blame or pressure, making it easier to bring your partner into the conversation naturally.